Burnt Bridges Repair: Some Still Think This Is Women’s Work
In light of the Waking Life debacle, I have seen people calling on women (sometimes by women) to forgive or negotiate with the perpetrators. Hell! Some think that these men would get better if they got therapy.
Let me make one thing perfectly clear: YOU CANNOT FIX SOCIOPATHY. It is a core fracture of the psyche. It is irreparable. Although, one could assert that amending and befriending is a biological forte of women, WE DO NOT NEGOTIATE WITH HOSTAGE-TAKERS. These men could not naturally attract a female to save their lives. (This has nothing to do with looks, money, property or prestige…it’s just that scary isn’t sexy.) That is why they employ games and con artistry to trap them. They literally hijack the attachment and self-preservation physiology of women in order to exploit hundreds of millions of years of Evolutionary know-how to ensnare them. These types of men are criminals against Nature.
More on the neurobiology of sexploitation.